Reclaim your personal time
What can you do to reclaim some of this time for your personal life? It can be tricky, but here are some steps you can and should take:
1. Identify the problem.
Is this a new phenomenon at your office? Is it just recently that your boss has asked you to put in the extra time, or is it something that has been going on for a while? Is it part of the company culture?
It's important to find out the reason behind the extra hours you have been logging. In some cases, there might actually be a reasonable need for the team to pitch in and give some extra time. Perhaps your company is going through a major change or your department has a multimillion-dollar proposal to complete. On the other hand, things at the office might be status quo, with no new added pressures or deadlines. You need to know what's chipping away at your personal life before you figure out how to address it.
2. Have an honest conversation with your boss.
Whether the extra time is out-of-the-ordinary or run-of-the-mill, you need to be proactive and speak to your boss about how you are feeling. Request a formal meeting to discuss the situation, as you would with any work issue. Write down your concerns and suggestions before the meeting, and make sure you have solid examples of the extra time you put in. You will probably learn a lot from your boss's response to your concerns. If it's a workload issue, be ready to suggest ways to get the work done during regular work hours. If your boss simply tells you that this is the way life is at your company, you will need to do some more thinking.
3. Consider what your job is worth.
If the necessity to put in extra time is because of a project that is on deadline, company changes that are taking place, or any other external factors, you might want to take one for the team. Most of us at one time or another will be called on to sacrifice for a job.
It's up to you to decide if the job is worth it. Were you happy with your company before you had to put in the extra time? Are you fulfilled enough in your company to ride out the storm? Is there a professional payoff, such as a raise or large bonus, waiting for you when the project is completed? If you are willing to stick around, you still need to be sure your concerns are documented and that you are tracking the business at the office. Don't let a short-term situation become long-term problem.
4. Take a close look at your priorities.
If your job has consistently eaten away at your personal life for a long period of time, you need to seriously consider what you want out of life and your career. While a career is important, there are millions of people who are able to find success without sacrificing their overall happiness. What is important to you right now? Do you have friends and family you are losing touch with because of your job? Or do you see this as a means to an end in your career?
Only you can determine what sacrifices you want to make for your career. But remember, having a life outside the office is not only nice – it's also good for you and will make you a more productive employee in the end. If you decide that you cannot continue at your current pace, have another meeting with your boss and let him or her know where you stand. If your employer is a keeper, it will work to find a solution so they can retain a productive and happy employee -- you.
1. Identify the problem.
Is this a new phenomenon at your office? Is it just recently that your boss has asked you to put in the extra time, or is it something that has been going on for a while? Is it part of the company culture?
It's important to find out the reason behind the extra hours you have been logging. In some cases, there might actually be a reasonable need for the team to pitch in and give some extra time. Perhaps your company is going through a major change or your department has a multimillion-dollar proposal to complete. On the other hand, things at the office might be status quo, with no new added pressures or deadlines. You need to know what's chipping away at your personal life before you figure out how to address it.
2. Have an honest conversation with your boss.
Whether the extra time is out-of-the-ordinary or run-of-the-mill, you need to be proactive and speak to your boss about how you are feeling. Request a formal meeting to discuss the situation, as you would with any work issue. Write down your concerns and suggestions before the meeting, and make sure you have solid examples of the extra time you put in. You will probably learn a lot from your boss's response to your concerns. If it's a workload issue, be ready to suggest ways to get the work done during regular work hours. If your boss simply tells you that this is the way life is at your company, you will need to do some more thinking.
3. Consider what your job is worth.
If the necessity to put in extra time is because of a project that is on deadline, company changes that are taking place, or any other external factors, you might want to take one for the team. Most of us at one time or another will be called on to sacrifice for a job.
It's up to you to decide if the job is worth it. Were you happy with your company before you had to put in the extra time? Are you fulfilled enough in your company to ride out the storm? Is there a professional payoff, such as a raise or large bonus, waiting for you when the project is completed? If you are willing to stick around, you still need to be sure your concerns are documented and that you are tracking the business at the office. Don't let a short-term situation become long-term problem.
4. Take a close look at your priorities.
If your job has consistently eaten away at your personal life for a long period of time, you need to seriously consider what you want out of life and your career. While a career is important, there are millions of people who are able to find success without sacrificing their overall happiness. What is important to you right now? Do you have friends and family you are losing touch with because of your job? Or do you see this as a means to an end in your career?
Only you can determine what sacrifices you want to make for your career. But remember, having a life outside the office is not only nice – it's also good for you and will make you a more productive employee in the end. If you decide that you cannot continue at your current pace, have another meeting with your boss and let him or her know where you stand. If your employer is a keeper, it will work to find a solution so they can retain a productive and happy employee -- you.
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